BARING IT ALL OUT FOR YOU

My Love, Before you say it, I know it has been a couple of months since I penned you. I never stopped thinking about you, in fact, I think it was fear I had let you down – for not penning words down for you to read that stopped me from writing. I was constantly…

A 20 SOMETHING-YEAR OLD LIVING IN A PATRIARCHY COLOURED ERA

Visionary feminism is a wise and loving politics. It is rooted in the love of male and female being, refusing to privilege one over the other. The soul of feminist politics is the commitment to ending patriarchal domination of women and men, girls and boys. Love cannot exist in any relationship that is based on…

ALL I LEARNED FROM A FALL FROM GRACE

Every woman has a breaking point – A Fall From Grace It’s always refreshing to see outliers own their craft and go for it with the same energy. Tyler Perry is an outlier and I’m in awe. Utmostly, in awe of how his mind works. I need that man to stay hydrated and keep blessing…

I GOT ROBBED TODAY

All days start the same, there’s no way to know if it will be good or bad. – Tinnie The night before was one of those nights where you don’t remember how you slept off. You wake up to find your left leg thrown to the south, your right leg north east and your hands…

WALKING THROUGH MURKY WATERS

Just because you don’t understand it, doesn’t mean it isn’t so – Lemony Snicket I will be honest with you, I can’t remember when I was last happy or in touch with my feelings. These days I feel like a spectator in my own life, observing from a third-person perspective. I feel disassociated from my…

DEATH & THE DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS THAT COMES WITH IT

Death is a distant rumor to the young – Andrew A. Rooney Like the opening quote states for me, death used to be a distant rumor. But death started having meaning when I lost my best friend. The meaning of death became more significant when my grandmothers passed on. Death meant nothing more than a…

ON THE FIRST DAY OF RAMADAN MY TRUE LOVE GAVE ME A GIFT.

We usually think of second chance as a way to move on, move forward but I think second chances are about acceptance that is why they are so rare. Because accepting who we are and what we want isn’t as easy as we think. –God Befriended me This article is different from the other articles…

DON’T CALL HER PUNANI

The best engine in the world is the Vagina. It can get started with one finger. It is self-lubricating. It takes the size of any piston and it changes its own oil every four weeks. – UNKNOWN. Hey sis, I don’t know about you but in over two decades have spent on this planet, I…

A Tempestuous Friday Night In Lagos With A Stranger

I generally avoid temptations unless I can’t resist it – Mae West It’s not every day we bump into a stranger that makes us smile so hard we forget about the super stressful day we’ve had. That, I can say with my chest. My Friday night experience was a temptation I couldn’t resist. And I’m…